Sarah’s Daughter Is Getting Married
I received an email from Sarah asking for more information on my services.
Sarah had tried several diets, and weight loss classes in the past and they had never been successful as she gave up after a couple of weeks and went back to her old eating habits and quit doing the exercises.
She explained that her daughter was getting married in the summer and Sarah wanted to look her best, and she was not happy with her current body shape, she was 75 Kg and wanted to slim down to 60kg and tone her body up as well.
Sarah was a seamstress and owned a small sewing shop. Sarah wanted to make her dress for the wedding and had seen a pattern that she wanted to make but knew that she would need to lose some weight to do this dress justice.
There were nine months till the wedding and Sarah knew she would have found a weight loss plan that she would not give quit. She needed one that she could not get out quit. After several hours of internet surfing, Sarah found they all offered the same things that Sarah had given up before. She knew what she needed was a strict disciplined approach to losing weight. Sarah did some searches with the search term discipline and searched for a disciplinarian Cumbria where she found my website.
Sarah read all the articles on the website and knew deep down that this was what she needed. But it scared the hell out of her.
Was she going to contact a stranger and pay him to spank her if she did not stick to her diet and exercise plan? Her family and friend would have her committed if they knew, Sarah had never been spanked before in her life, her parents did not believe in physical punishment, and she had not used it on her daughter either. But her she was now considering being spanked to help her achieve her goals.
Sarah typed out an email asking for more information but could not bring herself to send.
She decided to sleep on it and see how she felt in the morning, all night she tossed and turned, dropping her jeans and bending over would be so humiliating and humbling she was 49yrs old Sarah and not a child and could she take the pain, would it hurt, how much would it hurt, all these thoughts ran through her heal all night. The ore she thought, the more frightened she was at the idea, but strangely the more Sarah knew she had to do this.
The next morning while waiting for the kettle to boil and looking at a picture of the dress she was going to make that was on her cupboard Sarah knew what had to do, a deep breath and she pressed send, all Sarah could think was have I taken leave of my senses.
Nervously Sarah waited for my reply, and I suggested we meet for coffee to discuss my service and her issues in more detail. I gave Sarah a list of dates and times with the earliest being tomorrow morning. Sarah replied to my email within five minutes, asking for tomorrow morning.
I was pleased to see that Sarah turned on time, after some small talk about the weather etc. I asked what questions she had about the service I offered, and I would answer them for her.
The first question was will you spank me if I do wrong or is this just a scare tactic; I assured her that I would have no qualms about bending her over and giving her, a good spanking and it would be one she would not forget in a hurry.
I then explained to Sarah that the role of a disciplinarian is not to look for every excuse to dish out punishments. A Disciplinarian is there to listen, advise, guide, encourage and if necessary, punish. Discipline is the last choice, not the first.
We then discussed the weight loss program Sarah would use, a mixture of a low carb diet and exercise. We agreed that Sarah would walk twelve thousand steps a day to start and increase the amount if needed. Keep a log of everything she ate and drank. She would send screenshots of the apps to me at the end of each day.
Sunday morning was to be weight check day, and Sarah agreed to send a photo of the scales before 9 am.
The target weight loss was 1.5Kg a week.
The rules were straightforward :
- do not eat banned foods only drink tea, coffee and water.
- No alcohol was permitted without permission first.
- Do daily exercise.
Any breaking of the rules would earn a spanking
The amount given and implement would depend on the infraction.
Gaining in severity if she continued to break the agreement.
We agreed on the fee for my services.
Sarah was given 24 hours to think about this and asked to let me know by noon the next day what her decision was.
At 9 am the next day, Sarah emailed me to say she accepted the agreement and transferred my fee.
Sarah also included her starting weight photo.